
Almost everyone I know has religious view, political views, and morals that stem from their parents. So, Janie is not different from modern people today. It is easy to understand why Janie let her grandmothers ideas cloud her view of things when in her life. When you are raised by people, you are easily influenced by them. This also leads to kids lashing out and doing complete opposites of what they've been told. Which lots of teenagers do today, this is what I see Janie doing.
Janie’s next marriage is influenced
negatively from her first. When Janie leaves her husband Logan, for her next,
she believes it is for the right reasons. Unlike her first husband Logan, Joe
Starks is not as financially reliable. As Janie pursues this next relationship,
it is clearly evident she is searching for someone more closely fit for her.
Due to the fact she never finds love with her first, she looks for immediate
attraction, which she finds in Joe Starks due to he charisma and powerful attitude. The first thing she notices of him is clothes. She describes "the shirt with the silk sleeveholders was dazzling enough for the whole world... he walked liked he knew where he was going" (27). Though, as she finds out more
through her marriage, she realizes attraction is not the only thing important
in order to love a person. When Joe turns to hitting Janie to maintain her
dominance over her, she decides she cannot love him. When Joe dies she is not
sorrowful, but actually hopeful for her future that waits. Her marriage to
Logan negatively affects her decision to marry Joe, but her marriage to Joe yet
again changes her insight of love.
When Janie meets Tea Cake, her relationship
with Joe still cautions her. When Janie first meets Tea Cake, she is skeptical
he might be using her for her money. As this idea fades, she begins to develop
feelings for the young man unlike others she has before. Even this however, is
not enough for her to fully trust the man she has fallen in love with. Then,
Tea Cake steals her money and gambles it away, she ironically stays with him.
Even after he does this she still feels a "self-crushing love" for him as he watched her asleep (128). It is then that she realizes love should not be about money or security, but
about affection and passion. From her past relationships with her husbands,
Janie learns to be cautious and not fall at face value or for material goods
for a man. Her past relationships lead her to Tea Cake, and possibly contribute to her actions towards him.
Janie's grandmother influenced her first relationship, and with her second and third, she was purposely going against what she learned was right from her and tried to go her own way. Although the second didn't work out well, she thought the third did with Tea Cake. This is what Janie thinks is true love. But really is it? Tea Cake beat her, stole from her, and controlled her yet she loved him unconditionally. The implications of this novel show what women look like in a abusive relationship. I think the novel did not end well because she was never treated well as she should have been, even if she truly was in love.
Janie's grandmother influenced her first relationship, and with her second and third, she was purposely going against what she learned was right from her and tried to go her own way. Although the second didn't work out well, she thought the third did with Tea Cake. This is what Janie thinks is true love. But really is it? Tea Cake beat her, stole from her, and controlled her yet she loved him unconditionally. The implications of this novel show what women look like in a abusive relationship. I think the novel did not end well because she was never treated well as she should have been, even if she truly was in love.